Play Up Requests
As parents, we all want the best for our children, especially when it comes to their development and success in sports. In youth soccer, the temptation to request that a child "play up" with older age groups can be strong, particularly if they show promise or advanced skills. However, it’s important to carefully weigh the potential downsides of such a decision.
Development Over Competition
Youth soccer is not just about winning games; it’s about fostering skill development, confidence, and a love for the game. Playing against older, faster, and more physically mature players can hinder a child’s ability to develop critical technical skills because they may resort to survival tactics, like booting the ball away or avoiding physical challenges, rather than refining their play.
Physical and Emotional Readiness
Even if your child has the skills to compete at a higher level, they may not be physically or emotionally ready. Older players are typically stronger and more aggressive, which can increase the risk of injury or lead to feelings of frustration or inadequacy. Emotional readiness is just as important as physical ability in ensuring a positive soccer experience.
Social and Team Dynamics
Playing with peers fosters camaraderie, teamwork, and friendships that are vital to a child’s overall growth. When a younger player moves up, they may struggle to connect socially with older teammates, potentially leading to feelings of isolation. Additionally, team dynamics can be disrupted, creating challenges for coaches and players alike.
Long-Term Success
Success in youth soccer is a marathon, not a sprint. Children develop at different rates, and being the star of a team in one age group does not guarantee long-term success. Sticking to an age-appropriate level allows children to master foundational skills and build confidence, which will serve them well in the future.
While it’s natural to want to push your child to excel, requesting that they play up may do more harm than good. Trust in the structured progression of our youth soccer programs, and remember that every child develops at their own pace. By keeping your child in their appropriate age group, you’re setting them up for growth, enjoyment, and a lifelong love of the sport.
Having said all of that, if you wish to request your child play up, please go to the following link, review the policy on Play Up Requests and complete the associated form. The board reviews all of the forms during a monthly board of directors meeting prior to the start of the season.
https://www.shalersoccerclub.com/about/policies-procedures/69142